It happens to all parents. You ask your child to do something but they don’t do it. Forced to repeat yourself multiple times, you might eventually resort to begging, pleading, or even making threats to try and get your child to comply. If your kids won’t listen to you, you aren’t alone. This is a common frustration felt among parents everywhere, and luckily, there is a solution for getting your kids to listen to you.
This might come as a surprise to you, but a big reason why children don’t follow directions sometimes is because of the way parents are giving directions. You can probably identify with at least one, if not several, of the examples below:
- (in a very loud voice) “You never do what you’re supposed to do. Why can’t you behave better?”
- “If you don’t pick up your clothes, I’m going to throw them in the trash.”
Giving unclear/vague directions
- “Let’s not do that anymore.”
Using too many words
- “Now, after you finish making your bed, you need to get dressed, comb your hair, brush your teeth…”
Asking a question
- “How about eating your food at the table?”
Using stop commands
- “Stop yelling! Don’t do that!”
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